Dolores Lorraine Chelf Smith, known affectionately as Dolores by her friends and family, passed away peacefully on February 4, 2025, in Salem, VA. Born on October 2, 1931, in Baltimore, MD, she was a cherished daughter of the late Lorraine R. Chelf and Harris J. “Jack” Chelf. Dolores’ life was marked by her intelligence, analytical mind, and passionate nature, which touched the lives of everyone she encountered.
Dolores moved to Salem at the tender age of eight and later became a proud graduate of Andrew Lewis High School, followed by Roanoke College, where she furthered her education. Her love for learning and teaching led her to a fulfilling career in education, dedicating thirty-one years to shaping young minds in Roanoke County Public Schools, including seventeen years at Northside High School in the Math department. She tutored students not only during her teaching career, but well on into her retirement. Her dedication to education was only matched by her commitment to her family’s history, as she worked diligently on genealogy after her retirement.
Her involvement in historical and lineage organizations was a testament to her deep appreciation for heritage and community service. Dolores was a distinguished member of the United Daughters of the Confederacy (UDC), where she held numerous leadership roles, including President of the Southern Cross Chapter, 746, of Salem. Her service extended to the state and general levels, where she served as recording secretary, vice president, president, and on the finance committee. Her contributions to the Daughters of the American Revolution (DAR) and the Daughters of the American Colonists (DAC) were equally significant, serving as district director and state librarian for the Fort Lewis Chapter of Salem (DAR).
Beyond her professional and community achievements, Dolores was a devoted mother to her daughter Leigh Smith and son Stephen “Steve” Smith. Her joy was multiplied with the birth of her grandchildren, Heather Frumkin and husband, Scott, and Justin Smith and wife Lauren, whom she adored; and five great-grandchildren whom she adored. She also shared a special bond with her best friends, Dolley, and Scarlet; and her Chelf cousin.
Dolores’ love for animals was evident in her volunteer work alongside her two dogs at the Veteran’s Administration, where she served eight years in pet therapy. This work not only showcased her compassionate spirit but also her desire to give back to those who had served. As a member of St. Paul’s Episcopal Church in Salem, she found spiritual solace and community. Her membership in the Jamestown’s Society further highlighted her passion for American history and heritage.
Dolores’ life was a beautiful tapestry woven with dedication, service, and love. Her analytical mind allowed her to solve problems with grace, and her intelligence shone through in every aspect of her life. Passionate about her beliefs and interests, she inspired those around her to pursue their own passions with vigor.
A graveside service to celebrate her life will be held at 1 p.m. on Sunday, February 9, 2025, at East Hill Cemetery in Salem, with Fr. Ned Morris officiating.
Memorial contributions may be made to: St. Paul’s Episcopal Church, the Roanoke Valley SPCA, or the Roanoke Rescue Mission in her honor.
Online condolences may be sent to the family at www.johnmoakey.com.
